Question by I’m back…and this still sucks.: Merry Christmas to me 
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So my fiance of five years (we’ve been together six) broke up with me almost to the day that we met. He told me that he has love for me but he has become complacent and doesn’t like himself. He has to go out and “do him, for him, by him.” The problem is, all of these epiphany’s that he’s having are things thtat I have been telling him for the past six years and it took another woman who is in a relationship of her own to open his eyes. His exact words were “you put the ducks in a row and she turned on the machine.” He swears that she had nothing to do with the break-up and I believe him because things have not been good for quite some time and neither of us was really happy but I guess I thought we would get around to dealing with the issues at some later point. In the meantime, I’ve met this great guy who says that he’s falling for me and I really want to fall for him but I can’t ge tover my ex. How do I get through this? Is there any chance that I might get back with the ex?
I wasn’t very happy with him at this time but we were together for 6 years. I do still love him and most of our problems can be chalked up to lack of communication and not letting go of old issues. He said that he needs some seperation and then he can evaluate where he really wants to be but I don’t know if that is just a nice way of saying “get lost, it’s not happening ever” or “just give me some time to get things together in my head.” In the meantime, I have this other guy who I really, really like but can’t like as much as he likes me or as much as I would have if I wasn’t still hung up.
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Answer by Anna K
oh im sorry hang out with the ex is better then the regular guy
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